The fragility of Chinese men
We are learning LADYFIRST now, but we are actually atonement for the past few thousand years. Especially Chinese men owe women too much.
Some feminist thinkers in the West think that LADYFIRST is an insult to women. Let ‘s leave him alone, do n’t think about flying, or learn to leave first.
10 years ago, in Xinjiang, there was a place called Karamay, where a person spoke a famous saying that can be passed down through the ages.
At that time, in a theater, hundreds of children and their teachers were performing and there were leaders to observe.
The fire was in chaos. At this time, one person shouted, “Let the leader go first.
“This sentence will stimulate our nerves for at least 100 years.
However, we must also see progress.
One year ago, the shipwreck in Yantai, the Dashun was about to sink, the lifeboat was lowered, and a waiter shouted, “Let the women and children go first.
“The men were following the line closely and did not snatch.
That’s too shameless.
In fact, this is not face, but grace.
If there is hope in this country, this hope is reflected in these NB men.
It’s more than LADYFIRST.
As a Chinese woman, I never know what a lady is.
I remember the oldest days when I lived in a collective life. For example, in the university era, every day in the canteen opens, every semester is open, and when it comes to queuing and crowding these words, we are surprised to find out why Chinese men cannot play the World CupThe reason why I ca n’t get a few championships in the arena: they use too much physical strength and power to compete with women and children.
This is not surprising, because Chinese culture has never cultivated gentlemen, so there is no way to find gentlemanliness.
Although it is said that the main body of the world is always men, no matter at home or abroad, there are still obvious cultural differences in showing strength: the strength of Chinese men has an arrogant and domineering component. The so-called male is superior to the female, why should I give aWomen make way?
They should all serve me. After liberation, after the establishment and development of the idea of equality between men and women, men have found a new reason for not having to be a gentleman. Since they are equal, they have half the sky, why should I let you?
Then there was the meaning of bargaining.
In the power of western men, there is always a sense of grand humility. The main body of the world is already our man, so there is no need to completely kill the woman’s superiority in the details of life, and properly retain a little thoughtfulness and service.Inside, it will make women’s psychology more comfortable, and it will also better reflect the mind and value of men.
Domineering and the atmosphere, bullying the weak and tolerating the weak, although there is a word difference, it is indeed thousands of miles away.
I was 5 months pregnant that year. I once took a bus. When I got on the bus and saw that no one around me wanted to let me go, I very nicely waited until everyone had finished boarding.
Standing in the carriage, I didn’t find anything wrong. On the contrary, those who had seats were very disgusted with me. I even reflected from their uneasy eyes: If you are pregnant, you ca n’t hit, sit.What bus.
It was the 40-year-old female conductor who couldn’t stand it and yelled at a young man who pretended to sleep to give up the baby seat to me. As a result, he was very angry and despicable: “I managed to grab a seat, so many people,Why should I let it?
“At that moment, my understanding of Chinese men was strengthened again, and I felt that he should really sit, because he needs more than me.
Of course, it ‘s not a benefit for men to do so. Some objective effects are very good. Since women have received the physical training they did as sparring at any time and any place since they were young, their potential is better than that of foreign countries.Women were developed earlier and their psychological qualities were more comprehensive. As a result, Chinese women who are not tall can even win championships in weightlifting, judo and other events in the international sports. Of course, this was unexpected by Chinese men.
It is said that when the World Trade Center in New York collapsed and people were fleeing, the disabled, the elderly and women still enjoyed the strength of the first step.
Not to mention the news is true or false, this statement alone has made my woman’s heart warm-that step may be the opposite of life and death, but the man gave the opportunity to the woman.
Can such a man be respected, but such a good man is buried in flames, unfortunately.
Is there “ladyfirst” in China?
I have lived in this lady for 30 years and found that the Chinese men ‘s priority attitude is only reflected in one place: that is, when sitting in a Western restaurant, the men of Yapi will pretend to help the woman pull out the chair, please ladySeat first.
But don’t be fooled by him, thinking he is a true gentleman.
You see, when he squeezes a bus on the street, he must jump forward bravely. Has he seen the old people, children, pregnant women, women who were crowded aside?
When graduating for an interview, he will never give priority to female classmates. It is also entirely possible for a competitive female opponent to secretly make such a shot.
When it comes to the unit, facing various opportunities for promotion and salary increase, he will never give priority to women. I hope that every woman will give him priority.
Be ruthless to other women, give priority to your wife.
The situation is even worse. Chinese men marry their wives back. They all want her to be both a nanny and a strong woman. They have a deep affection for him and do n’t care about his second and third grandma.She endured in silence.
This is their “priority”. The weaker the man, the less graceful he is, and the narrow-minded man is bound to become more and more incompetent.
Finally, a man shouted out the last words: “Is it necessary for a lady to have priority?
Why not men first?
Why not have a men’s day?
Men also need to take care of them . “Men are as numb as advertisements, asking women for weak power directly, languishing the vast power, the power to eat soft rice, the power to write stories that must be told, the right to ask for maintenance.
Woohoo, in the 1980s, people in a country called men, and now they do n’t call anymore. Instead, they call for “male weakness.” Is it progress or degradation?
Like all the good-hearted women in the world, I keep the last face for men: Would you please pull the chair for me?
Would you please help the driver open the door?
Let them pay once when the bill is not too big.
Let this poor “ladyfirst” remain. Even if men don’t need such a cover, they can directly fall to the end, but women still need fantasy.