The life of college students
At 6 am in a dormitory of Weifang College in Shandong, the alarm clock squeaked.
Ma Hui, a senior girl with the nickname “Juehuang”, bounced up from the bed, put on her clothes casually, and stomped on the bed to turn on the computer.
She is not so active to look for recruitment information on the Internet, or to pick another peach that she will mature at 6:10 in Happy Farm.
With her eyes brightened, she found that the radish on her friend’s farm was ripe the night before, so she stared closely at the dog on her friend’s farm, and stole the radish into her own farm when the dog turned her back unnoticed.
After playing around for a while, Ma Hui climbed up to bed again to continue her awakening.
Seeing that he will graduate in 3 months, there is no discount yet, and playing games has become Ma Hui’s current state of life.
”In addition to eating and sleeping, life may have other meanings, but I don’t think it’s great.
“Some graduates have” granulated and failed “due to long-term running between recruitment units, and they have shown” job fatigue “. Many students say that their current living conditions are” stubborn. ”
Confused, the virtual game became the spirit of “Happy Farm” that Ma Hui played. It was a small game forced to be installed by her classmate. After installation, she could have a virtual farm, plant radish, potatoes and other vegetables, and go to the classmate.Buddies on your friends ‘farm, weed them, kill insects to earn commissions and experience points, or steal your friends’ mature crops.
This is a game with a very simple design. Ma Hui can’t stop it. “I was addicted as soon as I started playing. I was very happy to see the food on the farm changed to more than 90,000 gold coins.
“The job has not yet been settled. Ma Hui is” paralyzed “on the community website under the banner of writing a graduation thesis.
”I feel very confused recently. The more I find work, the more I have no confidence. I am afraid to go out and find no results. I plan to play the parking lot first and then say, ‘Happy Farm’ has become my important spiritual sustenance.
“From the beginning of looking for a job to now, Ma Hui has submitted more than 50 resumes, but not many interviews. Better companies or schools have a master’s degree or higher, and some small companies Ma Hui did not want to go and found suitable results.The other party asked for “men only”, or felt that the work was too difficult to suit herself . In short, she did not have an offer on hand.
”Actually I know that playing these games is self-hypnosis and avoiding stress.
I was envious and anxious to see my classmates signing the contract, and I didn’t even dare to go home often. I always felt embarrassed to find a job, but the reality was difficult to change.
Ma Hui believes that in the “Happy Farm”, it is easy to earn a lot of money as long as it is safe to farm. It has a solid feeling, and the biggest fun is to “steal”, and it also satisfies the speculative psychology that he can earn for nothing.
Avoid, just follow me on the blog. “I don’t just want to hang myself on a tree, but I can’t find a tree that can hang myself.
“Fei Fei (pseudonym), a recent graduate of Huazhong University of Science and Technology, who often laughs at” unemployed vagrants “and” unemployed youth “, said in a blog.
Faye Wong recently played “missing” and only appeared on the blog.
My friend’s text message didn’t return. I used to take the initiative to make a phone call to my home once a week. Now my family is basically looking for her.
The person most afraid of meeting in school is the mentor.
Once Faye Wong went to the hospital’s office to stamp, and heard the laughter of the instructor outside the door. He waited for a few minutes outside, and dared to enter the door after the instructor had left.
“They see me and the problem is the same-how’s work?
My answer is the same-not found.
“Although in the eyes of many classmates, she is a” bull “: she received a full award for her delivery, published academic papers in core journals, rich professional practice experience, and a variety of reward certificates . but she repeatedly encountered job application failures.Still makes her very depressed: she just applied for the resume of a radio and television group, Shi Shenhai, and she intern at an advertising company some time ago, after two weeks of free labor, the boss knew: “We do n’t want female graduate students, because you get married and have children as soon as you workAlready.
“While Faye repeatedly expressed her determination and promised that she would not marry before and do not intend to have children in the future, the company finally rejected her.
Faye Wong angrily changed her QQ signature to cursing swearing.
The round after round of offense in return was followed by “destruction”, “My hopes and confidence were crushed so little by little.
Faye Wong said that she feels tired, worried, and sometimes has insomnia. Even dreaming is often a job-related matter. Seeing an unfamiliar number on a mobile phone will make her inexplicably nervous.
When she first started looking for a job, Faye Wong would bring the bitter water in her stomach to her family and friends, but she was numb by the blow and she didn’t want to stop like Xiang Linyi.
Now Faye Wong turns on her computer every day. First, she looks at the QQ, e-mail address, and job search website. Then she writes a school log and blog to record some funny and bitter experiences or summarized experiences during her job application. She set two for her blog.One column-“Stunning Records” and “Enlightened Enlightenment”.
”Unemployed nomads, dare not see people, go home for Chinese New Year and hide for N days.
Running around for six months, such as water bamboo baskets, written test interviews, taking part in several times, with few successes and failures, the so-called possibility, passing by.
There is no ambition, just in time for crisis, poor strength, and fateful lives.
“Wang Fei’s posting on the Internet caused a lot of resonance among her classmates, and was even reprinted by some strangers. Many netizens have left messages to cheer her up:” This kind of talent, don’t worry about the way out.
“” I know that everyone cares about me, but I always want to avoid it. When I face them, I often lose my voice, so I talk in the log and tell myself.
“Faye Wong said.
You need to encourage each other during the tired period of job hunting. “Smoke hard, drink hard, go to the Internet cafe all night until dawn, as long as your eyes can be opened, you will never sleep.””Chen Li, a senior student at Beijing University of Humanities, feels that he has no ideals now, and there is no tomorrow, and that he can find a suitable way to vent, only torture himself.
Chen Li is a self-study graduate of the administrative management major. During the job search process, he lowered the standards again and again.
Initially, I only circled in the “administrative assistant” position on the newspaper recruitment information and phoned over. As a result, the other party asked to have “more than two years of work experience” and “graduate from a key university.” Chen Li said that he was stunned.
”After being rejected more often, I am not a bit confident.
Although Chen Li later also paid attention to the information on the recruitment website, he basically “hands it down”-he wrote down the information but did not call him. In the end, he applied for a waiter on Island Coffee and resigned just two weeks after going to work.”Each 1300 yuan a month is not enough to support myself, and my profession is really wrong.
“” I’m hopeless about my future, I can’t find my emotions to find a job, and going to a job fair is just burning money and frustrating.
“Chen Li is doing nothing every day, he ca n’t find the focus of his life, and his diet is not regular. He often goes to Internet cafes all night to hang out with friends.” I did n’t expect to lose weight like this. In more than a month, I lost weight.More than ten pounds.
“For the life of some college graduates, Teacher Zhang Xingbo of Wuhan University’s College Student Psychological Counseling Center believes that no matter if blogging or playing games, they are all looking for satisfaction on the Internet and ways to relieve stress.
Playing a game can get a direct return, but in reality it is difficult to have an immediate effect; as for writing a log, it is a vent in itself, hoping to attract the attention of a specific group of people.
Therefore, it doesn’t matter to relax occasionally, but if you rely too much on the Internet and are unwilling to communicate with others, it may cause a decline in social skills.
Some psychologists also said that some college students have entered the “short-term period of job hunting fatigue”. They must pay attention to adjusting their mentality, do not make psychological hints to themselves, and subconsciously feel that they have found a job. Instead, consider this year as an “internship period”, To enrich their experience, you can also set up a job hunting group, everyone in the group to encourage each other and help each other.